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Goals for Family Life

Some of your family goals likely are interrelated with the other major goal areas of your life

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Despite what the media and some on the Left espouse, children need parents, and two good parents are better than one good one.

Young children grow up with the best chance of succeeding in life when they have two loving, caring parents. Certainly, a single parent raising children can do a wonderful job. Many single parents perform everyday acts of heroism when you consider all that they do.

You can strengthen your family by setting family related goals. Understandably, some of the goals you have for your family life are likely interrelated with the other major goal areas of your life.

The Most of Family Life

In her book, The Art of the Fresh Start, Glenna Salisbury begins her acknowledgment with a memorable phrase. She says, “Love fires my life and I have been surrounded by an abundance of supply of this precious commodity.” She is referring largely to her family.

If your family fits the traditional pattern or represents something new, you have the ever-present opportunity to improve the quality and overall health and well-being of your family and family relationships.

Suppose you are married and have children, are married and will have children, were married and have children, or will be married and contemplate having children in the future.

With that in mind, what kind of family goals do you have and what type of goals might be appropriate for the whole family, i.e., where every member can make inputs?

Interrelationships among Goals

One of your goals might be to provide for your children’s education, buy a better home, and be able to retire with grace and ease when the time comes.

Any financial goals you choose to pursue for you and your family need to be initiated as early as possible. All benefits, including compound interest, accumulating principle, even the discipline to start saving and investing in this manner, work out for the best when you begin at as young an age as is possible for you.

If your child is in grade school now, and you want to be able to send him or her to college, or a better high school, it will be easier if you start early.

If your child is thirteen-years-old, and you have five years to save, to accumulate a given sum you’ll have to put away three times or more the amount than you would if you started when your child was age three. That’s the way time, money, and interest work.

Show a More Active Interest

Suppose your goal is to take a more active interest in your family’s activities. This means spending more time with them, actually conveying your interest, being a good listener, and so forth.

Many people ‘say’ they want to be more involved with their family; they want to spend more time with their son, they want to attend their daughter’s recital.

The reality for many parents, however, is different. They might catch the last ten minutes of the recital, spend three minutes per day actually listening to their spouse, barely know their son, and so on. Is any of this familiar to you? We are guessing that it is.

The key to pursuing goals in a variety of areas is balance. Nowhere is this clearer than when in pursuit of family goals, because your family members are likely to let you know when you’re not upholding your word.

The Family that Plays Together

Another common goal area is trips and vacations. An old joke: A trip is when you bring the kids, and a vacation is when you leave them at home. You need both, of course, and significant differences accrue when the kids are not in tow!

How often would you like to go away with your family versus with your significant other? Suppose your goal is to take two trips of between three and six days with the kids, each year, and the same number of ‘vacations.’ Perhaps during the in between times, you also seek to take at least a few weekend getaways.

Realizing this goal would involve considerable planning – allocating funds, making reservations, coordinating schedules, including your children’s academic schedules, and handling projects at work in advance of departure dates.

Family Dynamics

How your family operates often is representative of how your life operates. Do you want your children to greet you enthusiastically when they return from visiting friends or an after-school activity? If they don’t regularly do this, then you might want to set a goal of greeting them daily or at some other interval with open arms when you return from work or time away.

Assuming that you’ve married the right person, if he or she hasn’t been responsive lately, perhaps it’s because you haven’t been communicating well.

When you compose a list of the things that aren’t working in your family, and choose areas in which to establish goals, often what you discover is that your own behavior and mindset are what needs changing first. Don’t say “if my spouse would change” …look in the mirror.

To influence another person, that is, induce them to change, the seeds of change or the desire to move has to already reside in that person. It’s tough to induce anybody to revise their approach to life.

As much as you think you can motivate and inspire someone to do something, in actuality, you can only plant the seed, and help it to grow.

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Jeff Davidson is the world's only holder of the title "The Work-Life Balance Expert®" as awarded by the U.S. Patent and Trademark Office. He is the premier thought leader on work-life balance, integration, and harmony. Jeff speaks to organizations that seek to enhance their overall productivity by improving the effectiveness of their people. He is the author of Breathing Space, Simpler Living, Dial it Down, and Everyday Project Management. Visit www.BreathingSpace.com for more information on Jeff's keynote speeches and seminars, including: Managing the Pace with Grace® * Achieving Work-Life Balance™ * Managing Information and Communication Overload®



 
 
 

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Satanic Influence: Has America Gone to Hell? Consider This.

Society is increasingly being overwhelmed with satanic influence in culture, media, and politics.

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Society is increasingly being overwhelmed with satanic influence in culture, media, and politics. The Bible teaches that Satan is a real and powerful spiritual force who seeks to deceive and destroy humanity. In 2 Corinthians 4:4, the Apostle Paul describes Satan as the “god of this world” who blinds the minds of unbelievers to keep them from seeing the light of the gospel of the glory of Christ. In Ephesians 6:12, he warns that “our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.”

One of the primary ways that Satan exercises his influence in society is through the media. Television shows, movies, music, and video games often glorify sinful behavior, such as violence, sexual immorality, and substance abuse. They also promote values that are contrary to biblical teaching, such as relativism, materialism, and selfishness. In addition, the media often mocks or denigrates Christianity and Christian values, portraying Christians as ignorant or bigoted.

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Politics is another arena where satanic influence is evident. Politicians and political parties often promote policies that are contrary to biblical teaching, such as abortion, same-sex marriage, and euthanasia. They also promote ideologies that are contrary to Christian values, such as socialism, secularism, and globalism. Furthermore, politicians and political parties often use lies, deception, and manipulation to advance their agendas, which are tactics that are consistent with Satan’s character.

Culture is another area where satanic influence is pervasive. In particular, the rise of postmodernism has led to a rejection of objective truth and a celebration of moral relativism. This has resulted in a culture that is increasingly tolerant of sinful behavior and hostile to Christian values. Moreover, the entertainment industry, which includes music, movies, and television shows, often glorifies sinful behavior and promotes secularism.

There is a growing concern about Satan’s influence on American culture. The United States was founded on Christian principles and has a rich Christian heritage, but in recent years there has been a significant shift away from those values. Many believe that this shift is due to the influence of Satan and his forces in the culture.

One area where this influence is evident is in the entertainment industry. The media is flooded with television shows, movies, and music that glorify violence, sexual immorality, and other sinful behaviors. Many of these shows and songs promote values that are contrary to the Bible, and they often portray Christians in a negative light. This constant exposure to worldly and sinful messages can desensitize people to sin and make it seem more acceptable.

Another area where Satan’s influence is seen is in the political realm. There is a growing trend towards secularism and relativism, which can lead to a rejection of biblical values. This can be seen in the push for abortion, the redefinition of marriage, and the promotion of the LGBTQ+ agenda. These issues are often framed as issues of justice and equality, but from a Christian perspective, they are clearly sinful and contrary to God’s design for humanity.

In addition to these areas, Satan’s influence can be seen in the breakdown of the family unit. There is a growing acceptance of divorce, cohabitation, and single parenthood, which can lead to the fragmentation of families and a lack of stability for children. This can have long-term negative effects on individuals and society as a whole.

Despite these negative trends, there is hope for Christians. The Bible teaches that Satan is a defeated foe and that through Christ, we have the power to overcome his influence in our lives. Ephesians 6:12 says, “For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.” This verse reminds us that our battle is not against people or institutions, but against spiritual forces.

As Christians, we can take several steps to combat Satan’s influence in our culture. One is to be discerning about what we watch, read, and listen to. We should avoid media that promotes sinful behavior and values and instead seek out content that aligns with biblical values. We should also be active in politics and work to promote policies and leaders that reflect our Christian values.

Another step is to strengthen our own spiritual lives. This can be done through prayer, Bible study, and fellowship with other believers. When we are spiritually strong, we are better equipped to resist the temptations and lies of the enemy.

Finally, we should be a witness to others. We should share the hope that we have in Christ and live in a way that reflects His love and grace. By being a light in the darkness, we can help to combat the influence of Satan and bring others to Christ.

There are several consequences of society being overwhelmed with satanic influence. First, it leads to spiritual blindness and bondage. As Satan blinds people’s minds to the truth of the gospel, they become enslaved to sin and cannot experience the freedom and joy that comes from a relationship with Jesus Christ. Second, it leads to moral decay and social unrest. As society becomes more tolerant of sinful behavior, it undermines the traditional family structure and leads to the breakdown of society. This results in increased crime, poverty, and social unrest. Third, it leads to the persecution of Christians. As society becomes increasingly hostile to Christianity, Christians may face persecution and discrimination for their beliefs.

As Christians, we have a responsibility to resist satanic influence in society. The Bible teaches that we are to be “salt and light” in the world (Matthew 5:13-16). This means that we are to live out our faith in our daily lives, and to be a positive influence on those around us. We are also called to “demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God” (2 Corinthians 10:5), which means that we are to expose false teachings and ideologies that are contrary to biblical truth.

One way that we can resist satanic influence in society is by being discerning consumers of media. We should avoid media that glorifies sinful behavior and promotes secular values. Instead, we should seek out media that promotes Christian values and edifies our faith. We should also speak out against media that denigrates Christianity and Christian values, and support media that promotes a positive message.

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A Day of Infamy: The Orchestrated, Unlawful Trump Indictment

The raw stink of the Biden Administration will linger for the rest of American history

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So, starting before he took office, after seven years of the Left trying pin something, anything, on Donald Trump, he is indicted over NOTHING. This occurring less than 300 days away from the Iowa Republican caucuses, the acknowledged start of events leading up to the 2024 U.S. presidential and congressional elections.

The raw stink of the Biden Administration will linger for the rest of American history: The indictment is an act of political war, nothing less, and a day of infamy on par with many in our history.

The obsession of the Left continues to be “get Trump,” as if that will seal the 2024 election for them, as they know they will be quite vulnerable. Unlike 2022, the GOP could take the Senate and retain the House. Several states will elect Republican governors, some for the first time in a long time.

Not to be a ‘Doubting Thomas,’ we all have memories of the 2020 and 2022 elections. For anyone to proclaim that the 2020 election was the most secure election in history is simply a gross lie. Mark Zuckerberg and his drop boxes alone yielded a five-state swing for Biden which would have been Trump’s and would have easily given Trump a huge Electoral College majority.

Refining Their Techniques

Because 2024 is a national election and the Democrats have refined their techniques, in addition to the bogus indictment, the election fraud in which they will engage could be far more difficult to discern than in previous years. The cheating will occur in all 50 states, at the regional level, and at the local level. It will once again include everything from forging ballots to late ballots to double counting ballots to destroying ballots for the opposing side.

In any case, we must head into this election sternly. The election monitors must be as vigilant as ever before. Don’t allow anybody to usher you out of the room. Don’t allow anyone to use newspapers or posters to cover windows so that transactions on the floor cannot be seen.

Finish the election on time on the same day. Be on guard for those late-arriving packages of goodies (ballots) that invariably reward Democrats and consistently penalize Republicans.

A Looming Doomsday Scenario

What about the disaster where we do not take the Senate? This could spell a grave period for America, as it will be a painstakingly long time ‘til the 2026 and 2028 elections. Even then, Democratic cheating might still prevail.

We must brace ourselves if we do not take the Senate and especially if we somehow lose the House. At that point, it will be time for massive, peaceful resistance in highly public ways to let it be known that this kind of assault on democracy will not stand.

It is time to engage in the practices of the Left, however vile we have regarded their practices over the years – blocking roads and disrupting meetings. It is time to dominate school board meetings and all public forums of every type.

We must make our voices be heard in ways that we have not previously attempted.

Why is the GOP Squeamish?

Why are Republicans, and those who vote as such, traditionally reticent to get down and dirty? For one, we have jobs; personal and professional responsibilities. Do Antifa members? One wonders. We have families. We manage households. We do the work that keeps America going, not to say that some Democrats don’t do the same. However, let’s face it: Democrats include almost all convicts, a huge portion of the unemployed and underemployed, the brunt of the entitlement class, and those who would rather tear down the country than do anything else.

The Left includes most of Hollywood, academia, the complicit media, and Big Tech, whose methods for manipulating what really transpires on the web goes beyond what we can imagine, although, on a massive scale, we sense what’s occurring.

The Highest of High Stakes

We need to take back the country. The stakes are too high to play Mr. Nice Guy. Is there any point in standing by as the United States is systematically destroyed? The Trump indictment, more than ever, signals that we might not survive the decade:

The inflation rate, the crime rate, the massive numbers of people pouring over the border, the growing drug crisis, the massive foreign policy failures, the gargantuan national debt, the supply chain disruption, the transportation disasters and boondoggles, the rate at which children are being brainwashed and sexualized, and the sheer incidence of all things bad accelerating, on all fronts, could prove to be too much to bear.

The clock is ticking. There is no time to dillydally. We must batten down the hatches, or prepare  to live in a police state.

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